Category Archives: Real Life : Dottie

A whole different ferry ride.

Last week’s daylight savings maneuver wasn’t so enjoyable with a two year old who doesn’t know the difference between 5:00AM and 6:00AM, but the one benefit was that it turned my daily ferry ride home into something magical.

It happened at just the right time to see some spectacular sunsets over San Francisco and the Bay Bridge.

I couldn’t help but pull out my iPhone and start snapping away. Mother Nature was reeeeeallly showing off. Perfect weather too.

I didn’t understand how people could sit inside the ferry and read books or talk on the phone when this magnificent thing was happening outside.

I kept pinching myself, so excited to be able to stop and do nothing for twenty minutes except stare at this wonderful and fleeting moment. Just breathing and taking it all in.

These ferry ride sunsets have been such an unexpected treat and a great way to unwind from the stresses of work. I know! Much better than the 45 minutes of traffic I experienced this morning traveling over the Bay Bridge!

By the end of the week, I noticed that my evening ferry commutes were already getting darker earlier.  But I will always have that one special week when everything was perfectly timed.

Are you taking advantage of these early sunsets right now?

Prettiest Little Cowpoke I Ever Did See.

While we were busy meatballin’ it up….someone was breakin’ hearts at the Sasparilla Ranch! Check out the little Peach in her Halloween finest!! Dottie sent me a text of her and I about died. How cute is this cowgirl?? The vintage ensemble was an eBay score —the heart pockets are just too much. Amazing!

But I think this has to be my top favorite photo. The little Peachie Pie and her sweet Mama. You two are the cutest pair around! Glad you enjoyed your trick-or-treaties, Miss Peach!

The Peach’s first doll house. My first doll house.

Have you ever played with a toy that you loved as a child with your own child?

We talk about doing that exact thing on this blog a lot. Things we enjoyed as a kid and sharing that with our own children.  And today, I did that with the Peach thanks to a Fisher Price Play Family House that I finally picked up off of Ebay for a song.

I remember playing with this cozy little blue house for hours as a kid.  And I remembered when the daughter of a friend of my mother’s defaced the daffodil yellow plastic roof with a blue crayon.  Boy, I was SO PISSED, but it didn’t stop me from playing with it all. Day. Long.

It was with equal delight that I unwrapped the house with the Peach Sunday morning. Oh, the delight in her eyes and her busy busy hands just touching every single piece and arranging it and arranging it and arranging it.

Boy, there is so much you forget until you see it again–like that doorbell! I was just as excited as the Peach when she discovered it! This Ebay lot came with a slew of great furniture and Little People.  I love the stairs with the Harry Potter closet underneath.

And that little smiling blonde friend got her sassy polka dotted dress courtesy of some Wite Out. What clever little kiddo came up with that?

And in the middle of all of the different pieces of furniture. I found this gem. Because every house needs a sewing machine. I like your thinking, Fisher Price… My house didn’t come with it. Probably because my mother wasn’t a seamstress and couldn’t imagine owning one.

And check out the full wardrobe filled with pretty dresses. But what’s with the kettle boiling over the open fire in the kitchen below?  Wow–that’s pretty new-colonial!

Once the Peach manhandled all of the pieces with complete delight, she decided these Little People needed a party–a tea party. It was quite a popular event as every seat in the house was filled–including the toilet!

As much fun as I was having with the toy, it was of course nothing compared to the glee and delight the Peach was having with the house.  This is one of those moments that being a Mom is more fun and rewarding than anything else I’ve ever done.  As I told my Mom about how much fun the Peach and I had Sunday playing with the Fisher Price Family House, she laughed and said, “Well, that’s why you have a child!”

What toy are you (or were) excited about introducing to your child?

 

Ever Met One of Your Heroes? I did. Tasha Tudor.

This week Alix and I will share some of our favorite books as part of a book series on Ohdeedoh.  The first question was of course, what was our favorite childrens book growing up. For me it was Tasha Tudor.

My personal favorite Tasha Tudor book was A is for Annabelle. It was about a beautiful doll named Annabelle and we went through her wardrobe alphabetically. I still remember that “L” is for “Locket”. Oh, how I wanted that doll! That doll was the epitome of glamour to me. She even had EARRINGS and (be still my heart) a MUFF! I can thank Tasha Tudor for my undying appreciation of the muff. It’s such an underrated accessory. I think that is why I wanted a winter wedding, so I could incorporate a muff into my wedding ensemble.

But I digress.

Tasha was ahead of her time as far as style–vintage style, that is!  While she grew up in the thirties, she favored wearing clothes from the 1800s!  She was also a single working mom–putting food on the table through her illustrations and writing.  And lived by herself well into her 8os tending her farm and living a very cozy life with her corgis not far from where I had a summer job in college.

And what was my summer job?  Old Sturbridge Village, a living historical museum dedicated to showing rural life in the 1830s.  As an art history major, I had an internship editing a book on antique clocks. And because it was an unpaid internship, I needed a job–so I worked part time as a costumed interpreter.  Yes–I dressed up in clothes from the 1830s milking cows, cooking over an open fire, spending the afternoons embroidering and knitting up a storm. Doing a lot of hand sewing. Wearing a bonnet to go outside. I made the uppers to my shoes. Heck I even dated a shepard for a month. Yup. The whole thing.  I cannot lie. It was a blast.  It wasn’t urban homesteading. It was homesteading! And there are so many stories I could tell you about that I will in another post.

That’s me, rocking the knitting out of the window. Oh yes, wearing my scotch dress. And of course a bonnet. I can’t lie. It was a hoot. The experience gave me a huge appreciation for all things handcrafted–from knitting to baking to gardening.

As I mentioned, Tasha Tudor lived rather close by. As many Tasha Tudor fans know, she loved a world that was older than herself. She had a particular penchant for the 1830s and would come to Old Sturbridge Village (or the Village as we used to call it) to sip a bit of the past. The cooper at the Village used to unload the cords of wood she would order for Tasha and do work on her roof when she needed it. So, he had an in to Tasha and told me that she was planning on stopping by one day.

While I was out chopping wood at the Bixby house I looked up only to see Ms. Tudor watching. She had her hair pulled back in a pink kerchief and was wearing a black sweater. She commented on how she was just doing the same thing the other day at her place. I smiled shyly and chatted with her for a few moments. I was utterly starstruck. Oh, she was so tiny–I could have put her in my pocket. I felt like a giant in comparison to her.

If only.

If only I offered my services to work for her in her garden or doing odds and ends for her. Oh, why didn’t I jump at the chance? If only I wasn’t so darn tongue tied. But I’ll remember her apple core face and wispy white hair. And how she loved what I loved. Or that I loved what she loved. She was berry brown and had quite the impish smile.

If only.

Well, I did run up after her and tell her that she wrote my favorite children’s books and she was amazing and so many other jumbled sentences gushed to her in one fell swoop. So embarrassed. Then I scurried away. Clearly too overwhelmed and awkward for my own good. And she just laughed and said she loved A is for Annabelle too. And had her ears pierced later in life so she could look just like Annabelle. Such a light and feathery laugh. But I didn’t ask her if she ever needed help. After all was planning to go to London for a year and then perhaps I would try to contact her afterwards to see if she needed help. But I didn’t. And instead applied to grad school.

But I’ll always remember this little missed opportunity. So, please everyone–take your opportunities! Fly through the crack in the window.

Don’t get me wrong. I love my sweet cozy life just the way it is (perhaps it could be improved by losing 15 pounds) but overall, I’m very happy. But perhaps I’ll try to bring a bit of Tasha’s wonder into my life and the Peach’s. And remember to not let my shyness/nervousness/fear stand in the way of just going for it!

Has anyone else out there had similar experiences?

Dottie’s Design Dilemma:: Dining Room Chair Recover

Folks, I need your help.

A looong time ago (OK–six years ago) Eric and I moved from our charming but tiny apartment in the city to stick our toe into the mellow world of SF burbs and living in a house.  All of a sudden we had all of these mysterious things that amazed and frightened us.  A front porch! Counter space! A back yard! A weird box in the kitchen that magically cleaned our dishes!

And a dining room, which led us to buy a charming Duncan Phyfe dining room set off of Craig’s List for pocket change. I swore that I would totally recover the chairs and blah blah blah blah. And, oh hello six years later! And boy am I tired of that blasted maroon fabric.

Inspired by the wonders of Apartment Therapy and the idea of using burlap to add texture and character to the room I thought it would be cool to take vintage burlap coffee bags to reupholster the chairs. Very French flea market chic, no?

So, I bought one–washed the burlap (which was a major mistake since that crap sheds worse than any cat in heat) and redid one of the chairs to see if we liked it.

But then, I came up with another idea.  You know how gaga I am of Bargello needlepoint, right?  I had often tossed around the idea of needlepoint dining room chair seats, but the ones that came to mind were all very staid–floral wreaths that would TOTALLY take forever to finish.

This past weekend, I went to an estate sale whose past owner was one crafty lady with a serious needlepoint addiction. I bought a fabulous needlepoint bag and a slew of amazing Bargello pattern books.  Then in the garage I spied a Bargello pattern on a dining room chair and FELL IN LOVE. I bought the chair and the needlepoint cover for $1 since the chair was broken, took it home, ripped off the seat, pried off the needlepoint and slapped it on my dining room chair quicker than you can say crazy-craft-lady.

I gotta say, I love the look.  I love needlepoint and to do all six years would probably take a year at least. And if I do–should I used the same colors but different patterns?  Am I signing for too much craftiness? But doing those pillows was so relaxing…  Or should I just stick with the burlap, which is very charming.  Is the Bargello too much?  I think they would actually go much faster than the little ones I made using embroidery floss.

What should I do? Thoughts? Are you Team Burlap or Team Bargello? I’m Team drink, because I need one to help me make this decision. Because all good decisions are made when tipsy, right?  RIGHT?

HELP!!!