Over the weekend Peach returned from visiting her friend down the street wearing the pinkest of pink princess creations. But what made it work was the absolute joy and huge smile the Peach was wearing along with this polyester pink outfit. She held up the sides as if she was wearing a wedding dress and whispered to me, “isn’t this beeeyootiful?”
And then she started spouting off the names of different princesses to movies she hadn’t seen–Ariel! Cinderella! Sleeping Beauty! Jasmine!
Well, I knew it was going to happen.
The Peach has discovered princesses and all the glamour that goes along with being one. Â Â I know a lot of women (including myself) who roll their eyes when they see all the princess themed stuff out there. In fact, I didn’t like it when family members would call the Peach “a little princess” when she was a baby. For some reason I connoted the word “princess” with spoiled-have-daddy-buy-you-a-new-car-when-you-turn-16-never-earn-a-paycheck lifestyle. Where I got this, I honestly have no idea. Maybe some random movie or TV show? I’m not sure.Â Princesses weren’t about being empowered and strong! They were simpering seconds who needed to be saved, right?
And let’s not forget the pink princesses who reign supreme and assault you as soon as you enter any toy section of a storeâ€”yeech!
But hang on a second… if you think about it, Disney princesses are all pretty good ladies. They’re always fighting for their rights, kind to others, never giving up, and oftentimes very humble.Â Not bad role models, in my eyes.Â I wouldn’t mind hanging out with Merida from Brave. And I have a feeling Cinderella and Snow White are probably good eggs as well as animal lovers.
And let’s face itâ€”those princesses have great wardrobes.Â The Peach admittedly seems more enthralled with the dresses than some Freudian review of what it means to be a princessâ€”especially since she’s never even seen one of the movies.Â Then I thought back to when I was a kid and I loved princesses too when I was her age!Â I loved pretty pretty pretty dresses! I still do love a fabulous dress and it hasn’t hurt my I.Q. or made me less successful or less funny or employable!
I’ll take dressing like a princess any day of the week over the Peach wanting to dress like a teenager and wear skimpy clothing. In fact, I have a sneaking suspicion that I will miss this glittery, tiara loving, pretty dress stage when it is over. Especially when it is this darn cute!
Have you dealt with the dreaded princess obsession? Please tell me I’m not alone in my mixed up feelings about princesses.