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Kiddo Flashback :: Alix’s 80s Valentines Dance

Gather round friends. It’s time for my Annual Valentines Story. Embarrassing, but too good not to share once again!

Like many towns, my high school in Flint, Michigan always had dances as school fundraisers. They weren’t formal (that was the PROM) and were held in the gym (of course). During my sophomore year, I was the Class Vice President and one of my main duties was to work the Valentines dance—manning the front desk, selling tickets, selling photo packages etc. Todd Richardson, our class treasurer, was working the same shift with me. The dance was pretty well attended and we were feeling all happy. As we sat there, this guy Lance from my choir class (yes. choir. I was Glee before Glee, ya’ll.) strolls up in his work out gear and casually asks, “Hey what’s going on here?” Obviously he didn’t see the GIGANTIC hearts and streamers. So I tell him it’s the Valentines Dance. (duh) Now Lance was a good looking guy and fancied himself a bit of a ladies man. He was also convinced that he *was* Prince and was workin’ that 80s Prince hair. I guess he kinda liked me because after a little chit chat he said, “Hey, so if I come back dressed up, will you dance with me??” I sort of grinned awkwardly not sure what to say. To sweeten the deal he added, “We can get our picture taken!” I wasn’t sure how to respond and stuttered lamely, “Uh…well.. I’m kind of working.” I look pleadingly at my buddy Todd, who totally pimped me out, saying, “You can totally dance. I’ll cover.” Then to Lance, “She’ll definitely dance with you!!” Lance grinned and sauntered out the door. I was peeved, but Todd looked at me all indignant, “We need to sell tickets! It’s a fundraiser!” *sigh*

To Lance’s credit, he got cleaned up pretty quickly—to my surprise he strolled in 15 minutes later in a plum colored Miami Vice suit. Hot! We shared an awkward dance to Union of the Snake by Duran Duran and then got in line to get our picture taken. Bear in mind I’m totally NOT dressed up and look like a huge dork. Not to mention the photography set up was sooo low budget—it was literally a chair next to a tall skinny table with a rose on it. Lance thanks me and  immediately leaves after getting our pic taken. So much for our “date”. I trot back to the table where Todd asks me “How was the dance?” I shoot him a look. I’m thinking, “What am I going to do with all these photos of me and Lance?” Cut to the end of the night. Our photographer comes over and says, “Hey, you two kids have been working so hard all night. How about a picture on the house??” Todd lights up. “Sure!” Good lord, so now I have to take another awkward wierd photo with ANOTHER non-date??? This was turning out to be the most random dance EVER.

Two weeks later I was presented with not one, but TWO sets of photos. I was now the proud owner of multiple 5x7s and far too many wallet pics of the Valentines Dance… TWO different dates. Of course I handed them out to all my friends. “Would you like something from the Lance or Todd Collection?” I would offer.

Do you wanna see the photos? Oh you KNOW you do. Presenting:

TODD. Rockin’ the high waisted jeans and running shoes. Goober chic.

LANCE. Workin’ the plum trousers and grey leather skinny tie. Suave.

I’m not sure why Lance took his sport jacket off (probably because we had worked up such a sweat Cabbage Patchin’ to Duran Duran). All I know is I look like hell in these photos. It’s a testament to how much I love you guys I’m sharing ’em. Now that I have divulged the PHOTOS, I wanted to clarify a few issues I’m SURE are burning in your mind:

1) YES I am wearing a black lace bow in my hair. We don’t know why. Maybe I think I’m Madonna?
2) YES the photographer made me sit with my legs demurely crossed like that.
3) NO I was not jaundiced.
4) NO I was not responsible for the wicker chair and single rose.
5) YES, I picked that outfit out. I look like the Easter Bunny. I have on this GOD AWFUL Esprit pink sweatshirt that was all 80s and had no defined sleeves…the hood was also “freeform,” hence the pink linebacker effect. I think I have on pink cords and weird grey sneakers shoes that look suspicously like jazz shoes. Which are actually in style again, so hell, maybe I’m not as far off as I thought.
6) On a positive note, I *am* wearing a lovely vintage rhinesone necklace. Which you can’t really see. But trust me. It’s perty. Can I get a few points for that?? This is me again. Slightly better photo.

I was made fun of by my friends for YEARS afterwards. I had actually pushed the whole sordid affair back into the far corners of my mind, when I got a Valentine’s Day card  from my friend Jennifer, who I had lost touch with. Inside were the two wallet sized pics of me—one with Lance and one with Todd. I couldn’t help it, a small tear welled up in my right eye. Not from nostaligia, but from the realization that I was wearing Madonna-style lace gloves, but ONLY in the picture with Lance. It’s true. Scroll back up if you don’t believe me. Happy Valentines Day, Kiddos.

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  1. Eartha Kitsch says

    Eeeeeee! I love this post! And any guy that wanted to be like Prince. Cut yourself some slack. It was the 80’s. And trust me – you were the girl that I wished that I was dressed like. I would have never dared do the lace bow – not cool enough. Or the lace gloves. Maybe I will today. What happened to Todd and Lance?

    • Alix says

      Oh geez, hahaha. You are too nice! Todd I was in touch with up through college (and could probably track him down) but I’m not sure what happened to Lance!

  2. Brigitte says

    Never, never will I get tired of this story!!!! And if anyone is interested: I believe there are still some of those pics in the basement of the Flint house!

  3. Dottie says

    I really hope you look up Lance and Todd on Facebook one day! I think the lace gloves are very demure. And we are so buying some to wear for next year’s Alt!

    • Alix says

      I was in touch with Todd up through college.
      Todd has a twin brother, Kevin btw….

  4. daisy says

    thank you, not only did i chuckle my head off but i will now have union of the snake pumping in my brain with images of you and lance bopping like dags to it. lance scares me a bit with his confident Prince-y-ness, although having said that i totally adored Prince in the mid 80’s. todd seems nice, more your non threatening dungeons and dragons role playing dude at lunchtime kinda guy. i too wasnt brave enough to do the madonna lace in hair thing, although was brave enough for flouro orange baggy jumpers, and floral high top sneakers (before going goth!).
    can you do a part two to this story and find out what T&L are up to these days?!

    • Alix says

      oooooh, now I need to see goth you. i was a quasi goth—not totally committed to it, but I’ve got some awesome pictures from the 90s I should bust out!

  5. Marjory @ Elk Dresses says

    The brassy gold frames just totally make the whole thing.

    • Alix says

      hee. glad you like!

  6. Tiffanie says

    Gawd, I would not be embarrassed one bit if I looked like you did at that age! I’m on Team Lance, btw. 🙂

    • Alix says

      You are toooo kind, mama!! I’m sure I thought I looked super cool. haha

  7. Marsha (Goldfarb) McLean says

    Oh puhleez, you never looked like hell in your life. At least not when we were in school (after which I have no knowledge). Your outfit was what one wore in that situation. Jazz oxfords were da bomb!

  8. Karen says

    I love you so much — you made me yelp with “UNION OF THE SNAKE.” And I was actually admiring your pink sweatshirt!!!
    xoxo



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